She actually told DH. I didn't say a word, or tell her to. Just told them its time to ring dad & she was first. Told him everything. He's really stoked that she told him like that, but, of course, **** himself! Poor Bri had to wait while he talked to me to get the full explanation & double checked I'd asked all the right questions. After the initial, why, how & its not right were out of the way I could tell he wished he was home. Even though he told me thats all my department!
I'm off to google. I know it can be a scary thing that google, but I need it for some sanity right now!!