Can they:

Turn the shower off and on without you
Shower themselves
Wash their own hair
Brush their own hair
Put their things away properly
Empty their school bag daily
Dress themselves without supervision
Remember where they put things



I'm sure when my older two were 11 they were doing all of these things. I would put DD's hair up every morning for school but she was able to brush it herself every day. My DD2 has problems with all but one of the things on the list. Just wondering whether your 10-11yo's can manage most or all of those things and what else they can or can't do for themselves.