Funny you say that Zaidie - the mother of this same friend called me concerned that the girls were fighting. She wanted them to be friends again - I told her I had no idea what she expected me to do (they were FOURTEEN!!) and that it was pretty much between the two.

What I felt like saying was - your daughter is a drama queen to the point she carried on at DD's birthday, carries on at school and threatens to break the friendship of anyone that speaks to my daughter, and all her friends are sick of it - yet are kind enough not to tell her to eff off.
MY daughter is so sick of it that she doesn't want to continue the friendship and isn't making a drama out of it so not to make everyone uncomfortable so why can't you both just leave it alone?

*sigh