my 9 year old just got a ipod for her birthday and we have a family Ipad...

in regards to time I don't time her use. TBH if they have done their chores/homework and their room is clean I let time slide on it. Some days i will tell her enough and send her outside to play or into the toy room.

ATM with it being yuck whether and 4 kids (3 bedroom house only one living area), school holidays limited funds and space I am def not strict on time. I would be more strict and worried if I didnt think she was being a active healthy child and the usage was affecting that.

And i cant really talk as my computer/phone iinternet time isnt really monitored either