... So yeah, then having an elaborate seafood meal that you enjoy instead is kind of missing the point. But most people aren't thinking of the religious reasons any more.
Exactly.

Kinda like my friend who cooked a massive Passover feast last night, compete with the plate that goes in the middle with a burnt egg, lamb shank, some other stuff, which all signify important events. And they will spend two hours going through each item and telling each item's story... But she doesn't believe in God.

She calls herself a "cultural Jew". Still can't get my head around that.