Ham with apple sauce
Smoked chicken or turkey with cranberry
Potato salad (DH's evil version)
Coleslaw
Garden salad
Beetroot
Seafood (under decided as yet, hoping the In-law oblige)

Trifle
Christmas pud and custard (still debating the recipe, MIL is over so we may do hers, otherwise I have been given one dating back to 1779)
Vanilla snow pavlova with passionfruit

Baileys - lots of Baileys
Christmas nibblie stuff - rum balls, pretzels