I actually had the opposite problem. The guy i was dating for a few weeks earlier this year happily slipped into our routine and i loved that i didnt have to compromise too much of our own life only for HIM to be the one who ended up running scared. After a couple of weeks of excuses i ended up just dumping him.

I have a strange feeling i will always be single though. I have been on my own for the majority of the last 13 years and now im too settled in my ways and hate having anything disrupt my own routine and times.