Claude, I don't know how I missed this thread. I just wanted to give you some I too am facing separation at the moment with an 8month old, it is tough and mine is only just beginning.

FWIW while things are amicable between you both at the moment, unfortunately things can get out of hand when emotions fly (it doesn't sound like it will) but I think getting some legal advice would be worth your while. Just to have the knowledge in the back of your head.

The girls on here are an amazing wealth of support and knowledge so please continue to use BB for support... you'll never be alone.

Sending much cyber love, support and strength your way.