Just out of interest - does his fiancee know he is still married? Is he going to ignore the problem and just keep her as a fiancee and never marry, so pretend all is well there, but not divorce you?

Yes, she knows. She was commenting about their bills when he rang to abuse me about child support the other night. He probably won't do it. Especially since he actually has to do something.

They've only been together a few months & not getting married won't stop him starting a new family (and doing the same to them). It wouldn't surprise me if he tells her he divorced me & married her anyway! Not that I'm even sure he really wants to. The immaturity that he's carrying on with & the way he's always going on about her makes me think its all about hurting me.

He told me they were already pregnant. Noone else has heard this though, including his family, so don't know if its true or not. But believe me, if he thought it would hurt me, he'd have another baby. Thats how low he is.

I was really worried about her, being so young. Til I found out that he's told her alot of stuff he did to me & that she actually agrees that his bull**** excuses were good enough reasons for it. So now, good luck to her. She's completely clueless & niave. You don't live with someone for 11 years & not learn how to see past the act & what I'm seeing is ALL an act.