My kids don't bring anything back with them and they rarely take anything from here because I know I won't see it again. Sometimes a favourite teddy or Alex takes a book.

My ex MIL and FIL are quite wealthy so they spend it a bit on their grandchildren.

My crap concerns are with the clothes my EX dresses my daughter in - she's just turned seven and she comes home in PJ tops and ladies clothing. "that's not a dress love, it's a ladies blouse ...."

Bag it all up, hide it for a while, if they don't ask after it - chuck it.