marlene - thanks for the warning, why does it always come down to sex??? GGRRRRR

satya - thankyou for the advice, I am hopeful that it wont be happening again

lara - yay, more pizza buddies your advice is sound. I had some very weak moments this week, but I am feeling strong again thanks to you all

My Uncle said last night that the reason he and his wofe havent ever split up is cause they are friends that dont want to hurt each other, plus she cant deal with the kids on her own. I dont want to settle like they have, I want all or nothing