I am 20 and have a 3 year old, 1 year old and a 3 mth year old,
i did it on my own with my 3 year old and my 1 year old and i was single, sweety it is hard work but you can do this you have to stay strong and believe in yourself.
It was so hard for me but the little ones need us, please message me back and i can help you with anything you need, STAY STRONG AND BELIEVE smile you have been blessed
I know what a strong woman you are and I know that even though you're struggling right now that you can get through this and come out on the other side smiling.
Don't worry about helping your XP. He doesn't deserve your help and you need to focus on you.
Hugs to you hun . I wish i could help in some way.
Are you doing ok? Haven't heard from you in a while...
Thinking of you.
Don't you dare do anything as stupid as taking your own life. Do you want your DD to blame herself and/r her daddy that you are no longer here to see her grow up?
Please get support when you need it. Keep us posted.
Hi Neenee,
I'm thinking of you hun, i'm going through a smiliar situation. Everyone just keeps telling me to "pull it together" but unless they're in the same or similar position I don't think they should really judge. Everyone deals with situations in different ways, we just have to find the way that works for us and sometimes that takes time and mistakes. Don't let anyone judge you, you are doing the best you can and that's all anyone can ask.
xxoo
Last edited by Little Bean 09; August 23rd, 2009 at 08:16 AM.
I couldn't read this without responding....I'm not trying to upset you or anything but, well...
It's time to pull yourself together. You need to start thinking about this baby, not yourself and how much you miss this guy. He did the wrong thing, you won't see him for awhile. It's not the end of the world.
We have ladies on this forum who don't see their partners for months on and and have to endure the worry that their partners are getting their butts shot off in Afganistan or something - and they get on with it. You have to as well.
You have family and friends rallying around you for support and ffs, out of respect for the care and love they are giving you, you have to do better. Your feelings about this guy are bordering on unhealthy.
Take this time away from him to really asses the situation, maybe grow up a little.
If it seems like you are the only one fighting for the relationship, it's probably true. It's time to think of the worst case scenario and make a plan for if that happens.
So you might have to raise this child on your own. That's not the end of the world, and it's a chance you (and everyone really), takes when you choose to start a family.
Come on chick, it IS time to pull it together.
xoxoxoxo
ETA - LB has edited her post so this might not make much sense now!
Last edited by Lulu; August 23rd, 2009 at 08:52 AM.
Hope you're ok NeeNee. Haven't been able to stop thinking about you since I saw this thread. I hope you're doing ok and just offline for a bit. Take care
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smile you have been blessed
I know what a strong woman you are and I know that even though you're struggling right now that you can get through this and come out on the other side smiling.
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