I don't know how to move out

[mummycate]

Well we've talked to CSA and T's going to receive FTB for the time he has her, and I guess mine goes down too. Hmm, that sucks for me, as he doesn't need to pay rent but I do. Plus water and electricity. He pays for phone and internet (atm we split it). So from me not needing to pay much towards bills, to me having to pay for all of it, its a big shock. So I need all the cash I get coming in. Perhaps with the CSA, I can get him to pay some to me as I need to pay rent while El is with me. I guess I'll have to sort it when I find a place.

[Lulu]

yep, this will cut into your payments if Terry claims his care% ggrrr. There is another way but it's up to Terry. He can waive his right to claim the FTB, whilst still recognising he has care of bubs.
PUt this option to him at least, maybe show him your list of moving expenses and what your weekly expenses will be. You can hope he realises how lucky he is to be staying with his parents etc etc. Some ex's do this, I have had several guys come in after losing their jobs/separating and insisting that the full FTB gets paid to the ex when they know they depend on it to pay the rent etc.

It may be a long shot, I'm not sure if he'd go for it, but IMHO it's the right thing to do.