It's only natural to want to be on good terms with the person who is caring for your darling You will feel so much better in time when you can wave her off happily knowing she is going to have a lovely time with her dad.
Oh and the other part - it's also only natural to want an ex to either 1) have the words crappest life now they have left you or 2) come crawling back at some stage telling you that leaving was the worst thing they EVER did. That's the rules!
Things are really good with xp at the moment
he sent me a message on mothers day it was really sweet and meant alot and where communicating abit better which i think is great!
its nice to finally be at peace with everything n with him for a change ! fingers crossed it stays merry lol
we tried this with DSS mum and its sadly not worked she would still rather blame us and play the you can doa ll the work game which we wont.
but it was good for a few months, she made regular contact etc. but thats all gone again now.
your being a very strong woman, and the way XP is responding, taking DD out without his mum, may be a sign he is ready to grow up and take responsibility and your openess is allowing him to take the baby steps he needs.
Lucy in the sky with diamonds.
You will feel so much better in time when you can wave her off happily knowing she is going to have a lovely time with her dad.
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