Oh Mel

I am so sorry your XP is causing you so much grief. I can't believe he has even suggested this let alone put forward that he thinks maybe DS shouldnt know his father.....i just dont understand how anyone could not want to know there own child.

I would definately be ringing tomorrow darl and finding out exactly what he should be paying and tell him that is what you expect him to pay - afterall it is his son and this is being paid to you to look after his son, feed him,clothe him and give him everything he needs.

Goodluck darl, i really hope your able to sort this out soon.