Tell him to p!ss off. Leave it to the CSA to sort it out, don't give this another thought.

For a start he isn't going to start formal custody arrangements because he has already established he can't be arsed seeing your son - and if he does, well the little fella benefits from seeing his dad on a 'formal' basis.

FFS! You are forgetting your penis-attached-to-head visualisations aren't you?

And WOO HOO!! for more child support - you both deserve it.xoxoxo
yeah that!!

babe i was in the same boat - am still but now i do have an amazing man.

x doesnt see dd - he didnt even vall her for her bday.

take the money. and if you feel guilty / bad / whatever.... - put 50% away in an account for ds for when he turns 21!