it will all work out. trust me

i was with ex fell pregnant was using contraception and all, i left him due to him being abusive, and in 3 months i met my now husband.
so i was never a single parent as such, but i had alot of uncertainty in the begining of my pregnancy and heart ache wondering how would i cope or do this alone. i had great support from my family but never felt they truely understood my feelings and emotions. and to make it worse i still had 2 months of uni to finish and i got through it all and came out with my registration for nursing and alot more understanding of just who i was as a person and the feeling that i could cope with anything.

i have just had bub number 2 with my husband and life is great.

i know it feels kinda dark and like nothing is going to work out and how can you feel happy about this baby when so much heartache surrounds the pregnancy and your life. but focus on the great experience that is pregnancy and the beautiful baby growing inside you and teh miricale that life is and there will be a better future ahead.

let your ex make up his mind, dont dwell on his decisions because they are just that HIS decisions.
my ex has nothing to do with me or DD1 and its perfect for us.