You know what you legally dont have to let him see her (if you have not any court agreements).... If your arse of an ex if he wants to see his biological daughter he may need to apply in the Family Courts to do just that.! Now im talking from my own experience here my love so im not talking out my own bum ok ... if you dont feel safe leaving her in his care then DONT!
Can you believe i went through a similiar nasty situation but my stupid arse of an ex only wanted alone time with my son when a) i got married (back in march) and b) when ds was 9 yrs .... he couldnt or wouldnt have him when he was 8 mths his mother had him for me so a) i had a break and b) could go to work.....
I did end up going to court as he applied to get access to see his son without having his mum hanging around ... I did that and his mum did that as ex **** was always drunk stoned or just plain angry !!!
By the way i left him and told him to get out when Tom was 8 mths old ... best thing i have ever done ... looking back i shouldnt have told i was pregnant at all! Hindsight is great but knowing a few legal things is best !
Good luck darling girl .... remember dont do anything you dont have the right gut feeling about. Oh the court trip did nothing for my ex and everything for me YET again!
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