what he did to you is just so terrible, to let you go through of all that by yourself and then have the nerve to call you up and beg you to have an abortion, that is just digusting!! he does not deserve to be in your daughters life, he hasnt shown that he has that right.

You are such an amazing caring person and i do not doubt for a minute that you couldnt manage on your own, you need to do what is best for your daughter and only a mother knows what that is.

I'm so sorry you have had to go through that and dont EVER blame yourself!!!!!!