My marriage is over, DH is refusing to go to coucellor and isn't interested in trying to make it work. He is still living here for now until we come up with a plan. I can't believe i have stayed with him for so long and now HE isn't happy, i guess it's better than in 20 years time.

I am angry, sad, nervous, worried and scared, i am not sure when to tell my girls or what to tell them i have a little one and she isn't going to know what it is like to live with her daddy. Its all normal worries and feelings i suppose.

It sux that they can just move on with things and we have all the hard work of raising kids alone. Anyone else worried about being alone forever? I feel like such a failure. What am i going to do?

I just want him to go, how can he just fall asleep within 5 minutes of saying we will tell the kids in the next few days.

I knew it was coming but its still a shock and makes me feel sick.

Thanks for reading and i hope it makes sense...
Trina