Need Advice - It's Over

[~Trish~]

Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this Ellee . I don't have any advice, but I just wanted to pop in to give you a cyber hug. You are a great mum and things will work out, it's just very overwhelming right now I'm sure.

I hope you have lots of help and support from your family and friends.

Thinking of you .

[feeb]

Hugs hun I hoped our chat other night helped a bit. I am always here to chat with.

Others have given great advice.

xoxo

[Ellee05]

Thanks for all your advice and feedback. I have to be careful what I let known to DH. He is meeting with boss today to start the ball rolling about getting accom for him... This takes bout 3 month apparently. We are in a town where we rent of company owned houses and only certain jobs get houses. This house is with my job. So could be a long 3 months. He has told me to pack a bag and go to my parents in Queensland but I'm not a fan of the idea of leaving him in the house. I'll be back in later. Thanks again xx

[Lulu]

That house is with YOUR job. He can go.

Plan for the worst, try not to bend over backwards in order to avoid further conflict. There is ALWAYS crap in a breakup, so rather than try to minimize it - face it head on.

Easy to type, hard to do but always worth it

[Visitor7]

hell no! If the house is a part of your job, then HE goes, not you! Make sure you stand your ground early on so he doesn't walk all over you.

[Ellee05]

Yeah I have told him I'm not going. Even if I do end up doing a trip I won't be going over there for 3 months. I have been looking for jobs though so that I can get someone to move me back. My options have been severly limited now I have DD (but oh worth it soo much that I can't even explain!!). I will get there. I'm living by the quote "nobody said it would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it" I think it is by Harvey Mackay or something.

Thanks girls.

[~Hestia~]

darl, I'm so sorry you're going through this.