Aaah you have made my day! I've been thinking about you lately.
Awesomely awesome. Isn't it amazing how much time you spend stressing, thinking, freaking out, worrying, justifying and brewing when you are in a crappy relationship??
Much more time for life and laughter
WOO HOO for drop kicking that out of your life - GOAL!
Well done, you have been so strong & I'm so proud of you doing what you know is right for you & Jade.
Wishing you all the best for your future as a single mummy
xoxo
ETA: I do find it so much easier not having to worry about XH being in a bad mood etc & trying to keep him happy. I now have a life & can see & talk to anyone I like... I even managed to get a friendship back yesterday from my best friend through out primary school & high school! We lost our friendship due to something that happened with XH back in 1997! I sent her an email & told her I'd left him & I missed her & she wrote back! We have kids close to the same age too..... I'd never have spoken to her as long as I was still with XH.
So I say YES I do find life easier without having to live with XH.
Aren't you a strong woman?
always knew you were
well done honey as you said you can focus on your beautiful daughter now!
if there is anything i can do and i seriously mean it please just ask
again well done honey
tattoo-mama - you should be woohooing very loudly.
congrats on having the strenght to remove yourself from that situation. No partner should offer you any less than to feel loved, adored and treasured and not abused, used and disregarded.
What a fantastic role model for your daughter and for any other BB member who may be a few steps behind you and trying to find the strength to make the decision to leave.
Your post is an INSPIRATION! Whilst I am not in your position - I admire your bravery for taking back your life for you and your baby AND for sharing it with others - reading this will probably help many others make the big decision to get out of bad relationships and claim their lives back!
Good on you for getting out. Don't get too discouraged if it does feel a bit harder later on though. I found as my son got older it became harder, particularly with teething & when both of us got sick as I had no-one to help me in the middle of the night. I hope things continue on the up for you.
Things get easier.
your a brave strong woman!
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