I don't know your XH so I cann't comment there.

But I will say in regards to sunday night guy - you are on the rebound, and however he makes you feel, you need to decide on you XH yourself, without consideration of other men. You had fun, but you know what? It doesn't matter if you are in the world's best relationship - there are always going to be other people in the world who can make you feel special. And all relationships loose their glitter at some stage (doesn't mean anything except that it is no longer exciting and new - but then you can really decide if you like the person, warts and all).

So you need to decide what YOU want. And remember that if you do choose your XH then the relationship you are going into is the same one you just came out of, nothing will be different - so don't put on your rose coloured glasses when looking at your relationship with XH. Why did you break up in the first place? Does that reason still hold true?

If you do decide to give it another shot with XH, take it slow - don't go running into bed with him, star by dating (as if he was a new guy you were trying to get to know).

Good luck