Good o, hope you don't see him for awhile
You were doing a wonderful job of trying to consolidate a relationship. He was doing a wonderful job of taking advantage of that.

He's too selfish and certainly not ready for a relationship, baby or not. You were being slowly conditioned to accept his terms for a marriage and I'm glad you fought it and I hope (it's early days yet) you feel in your heart that it was wrong of him and terribly unfair. He doesn't want to be there (unless you are a doormat for him), and he is trying to make it all your fault. Pooey to that.

I hope you don't care that he says he doesn't trust you. You have done nothing wrong, when you feel that - well the TRUTH will set you free.

Don't let him come back for AT LEAST a month. Then you have time to clearly see the way things are without his manipulation.

GRRRRRR for you. I hope your heart isn't too sore