im gobsmacked huni.
he is a total $h!t.
im so angry for you and he reminds me of my real dad. the only thing i will say is my real dad hasn't even got me a birthday card for the last 10 years and no message either.
i understand how frustrating it is mel but he can't buy the love of his son and believe me as your ds gets older he will see for himself what his dad is truly like.
you are a fantastic mummy and be proud of yourself xxxxxx