hi melly,

i've never been in your situation however it sounds to me like he's all talk. No one actually says that stuff when it's true lol. I'd report him to have his payments checked tho. To me, his behaviour sounds like someone who was insecure about looking 'ordinary' or a 'failure' in front of you and your family. I'd suggest that if some of that is not an outright lie, it's probably an exaggeration of his actual achievements.

and nope, don't think you are being a sook. whether its true or not, comments like that are incredibly insensitive. Glad you could look at him with good humoured disdain.

hpe your little one had a fabulous day!