Separated - But need help/advice/someone to listen without judgin

[surprised]

I second the legal advice. NOW. The longer you leave it, the more you risk doing something inadvertently that disadvantages you when it comes to settlement/custody. And the longer you leave talking to Centrelink, the longer it is til you get any benefits.

If I were you, I'd be focussing more on resolving your marriage (either way) than on a new relationship. If he's the right guy, he'll still be there down the track. Take some time to sort out your own feelings and look after yourself before complicating things with another person.

Bug hugs

Eta not just bug hugs, but big hugs too! :s