Anna so glad to hear form you again i was getting worried i have pmed you. Im glad that ur have things sorted as much as it can be. With my ex we try very hard to keep personal feelings out of it and just think solely on "does this benefit the kids" and our desitions come form that alone good luck! you have been offered some good support here in the forum i would take ppl up if i was you save your cash.

U will need support. I spent loads of time crying after my separation even tho i knew it was right to do, its when the kids get upset that would upset me. You need the support too!