Hi Rita,
Congratulations on the pregnancy. It is a tough situation that you're in and I can understand that you would be stressed and feel very uncertain! I think it's probably just best to contact him and let him know ASAP. The facts are that it takes two to tango so even though you feel as though you are about to change his life his actions have also changed your life and even though you are the one who is carrying the baby it is your child and his child.

And he has said he doesn't want to live in Aus maybe he will when he knows he is soon to become a father.

Whatever your worst fears are in terms of how he will react they may happen but there is nothing you can do to stop it so you may as well find out what his react will be if its bad then you know as much in advance what level of support you will have from him and if it is good you can stop stressing!!

I wish you the best of luck and am looking forward to hearing how you go. This is an amazing website with women and some men from all walks of like many of whom are single parents and will share your ourney with you!

Also I really think you should chat to a good friend who can help you through preferabbly one with kids