DH has found a place to rent but cant move in til the end of April, so he is staying with me til then, which i dont have an issue with at all. So what usually happens is when he gets paid on a Friday he will pay the rent via Bpay. Last week we signed the lease over to my name only. I got my first centrelink payment today and figured I would pay half the rent and DH could pay half, seeing as he is living there still.

Well, I am 6 hours away on holiday with family atm adn DH is home, so I called him last night to make sure he would pay the rent via Bpay as usual. He said no he wouldnt be paying the rent anymore. Just like that. No discussion nothing, just no I wont be paying it. I told him he needed to pay it cause I dont have internet banking or a credit card so cant pay it from here. He reckons he will have to pay the rent for me with his credit card, and was none too happy about it and made sure i understood that i would be paying him back. RIIIIIGHT.

So firstly, where does he get off thinking he can live rent free all of a sudden.

Secondly, he is only paying me $100 CS when he is meant to pay $250.

Thirdly, why the hell hasnt he got money in his account to pay the rent as usual??? He only gets paid today, yet he has no money?



Oh, and on the phone his voice was completely different to me and there was no "love you" at the end of the phone call like normal.

SO it seems the control games have begun again.

Game on, Im a heck of a lot stronger this time round buddy boy.