Big hugs hun. I know it's hard and your heart will break a bit tomorrow but Div's right - if nothing elses, his Mum will be there to make sure all goes well.

You're a strong, courageous Mummy for putting what's best for DD first and allowing her the opportunity to get to know them better on her own. I just hope I have half your courage when it finally comes time for me to be in the same position.

S xo