Its probably a LOT easier for me to type it than for you to do it, but I would tell your boyfriend what you've told us. Yes, starting his own business may be a dream of his, but it takes two to tango. I mean, there's no reason he can't start a business AND be with you, or you could go over there, KWIM??
Don't feel that you don't have any rights - you got into this situation together, planned or not, and he really shouldn't leave you to shoulder all the responsibility yourself. He at least needs to know how you feel, so you can come to some kind of understanding.
About not being able to get into your pregnancy, I know women who never got into it, not until they saw their bub for the first time. My own sister had her first baby last month, unplanned, and she's still not sure. Just because you're pregnant, doesn't mean you have to love being pregnant, just do whats right for you, and don't let other tell you how you 'should' be feeling.
Trust me, spend some time here, and it won't take long to start enjoying things again! If you look down the forum topics, there are sections for Belly Buddies - find your group and join all the women going through the same things as you, they can answer all your questions
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