victim of domestic violence

[Jennifer13]

Hi widdly, have you thought about joining the Family/Relationship Crisis Support Group on BB? You might find it helpful to share your story with others who've been through similar issues.

[Amity]

Hugs honey.

How do I get him to wake up and realise and acknowledge that he is emotionally abusing me and always has? I have told him that he needs to get his own counselling otherwise he will never be able to have a uccessful relationship with me or anyone else.

This is HIS problem. You cannot be responsible for HIS problems or how he reacts to anything.

It is not your issue - he is the only person who can recognise HIS issue and decide whether he wants to change.

Good luck honey!