lulu - that is exactly what my friend and i have come to the conclusion of too! For DH and I its like we cant live with each other atm but we dont want to live without each other either! Wouldnt surprise me if we live apart for the next 20 years LOL

jen - thankyou so much, really lovely words x

Its amazing how, just because I am separated from DH again I am already standing up forwhat i want and believe in more! Its strange how I fall back into the submissive role when we are together?? Its like I feel i cant be as strong adn confident when we are together? Though I was a lot stronger and more confident this time around with DH than before the last separation, so we must be doing something right.

LOL, my pup got her first hair cut this morning so this arvo I said to DH i was heading down to the pet store to get her a $10 jumper to wear at night. He started the old, she doesnt need that, thats a waste of money, I gave him the look and he straight away backed down and shut up cause hey, the only reason we are stressed about money is because of him, and how is it fair that my pup has to go cold overnight but he gets to drive his brand new XR6 to work that he cannot afford??? Freakin doush bag LOL