I know how much they frustrate you lovely! I dont even know them and they frustrate me

I really think you should stop trying to cater to them, i know you're doing it for Gracie but they need to work around you!

I hope her dad grows up & realises what a precious little girl he has before its too late!

Have you been able to get hold of XMIL? Is it possible she is embarassed by her sons behaviour therefore avoiding calls?

xo