hmm strange. maybe she is going to try and stop DD going to teh private school and if she says she is paying and that she may say its to expensive etc etc and send her to the local public school.
i know if someone offered to pay my kids school fees etc id jump at teh chance.
or maybe she doesnt realise teh costs involved in private schooling and things your trying to get the cheap end of teh bargain and you will be better off doing this and she will miss out on something.
If it is a public school, then it probably won't cost her that much unitl her DD is older. Ie, at public school - fees are optional, school uniforms can often be picked up cheap or secondhand, text books are provided (loaned) to the students free of charge, school excursions when younger tend to be cheap or free, etc.
If you are talking private school then that is a whole other kettle of fish. Catholic schools are somewhere in between.
She may not want to do that now, so don't worry about it - but once high school comes into the equation then maybe you could bring it up again?
im still slamming my head against a wall we pay a fortune in csa and well atmtrying to reduce it in my dps and ex wifes divorse she got the lott and now shes *****ing cause her and her other half busted up and she only works part time and well she needs the money which is close to a thousand a month to help her live pfft the kids 5 dosent cost that much to feed and water i also offered the olive branch of we will foot schooling but nope she want have a part of it
i hope you find a solution cause i know the frustation ur feeling
mis tree im not sure as to why she came to that decision, im sure when the time comes and she needs the help we certainly arent going to say no, but should she ask for more money (on top of CSA money)..we will be paying the school directly lol
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