Sorry if this is a bit long but trying to explain myself.
I have always believed there is more to life/earth than just US, i have dreamt people are PG before and it has been true, i have seen relatives in dreams and at time IRL that are no longer with us.
I have a strong connection to my brother and my great grandmother than have both passed and am not SCARED of seeing things, this said the last couple of weeks i have had an uneasy feeling:
New Years eve we had family over, my SIL's husband thought he 'saw' something in our outside room where he and the kids were going to be staying, he let the kids sleep in there for a bit but they ended up going home, he refused to stay @ my Mil's birthday which was held here.
I didn't think much of it and wasn't scared if there was/is something here, if anyone would see it surely it would be me right?
So a month or two back DD and i went out for the day, when i got home all the doors in the house were shut, i figured DP's cousin must have come and the kids had shut the doors. Was a little spooky but nothing to worry about.
DP's cousins DP came that arvo and i asked if they had been in the house, he said no.
He borrowed our trailer and said he would be back in about 20min.. no probs i played with DD on the tramp outside, when he got back he asked if i had shut the gate when he left, i said no.. for one it's a 1/2 a km to our fence as we are on 10 acres and the gate has been latched open since we moved in in October last yr... we both thought this was strange as my doors had been shut and now the gate when no cars had been in or out...
This didn't phase me and didn't make a deal out of it as DP thinks i am nuts.. hehe
Then DP went out with friends one night, i left the kitchen light on and watched movies in our room, every now and then i thought it felt like someone had walked past the bedroom door, a slight flicker in the shadow from the kitchen lights, to be honest i figured if there was SOMETHING here it was just checking that DD and i were ok in the house, it hadn't done anything and wasn't coming in to see me.
I have lived by myself since i was 18, i am used to being alone at night so when DP was working late for about a week it didn't worry me at all, UNTIL...
DD was playing at the window at about 6:30 while i cooked tea, she normally talks to the dogs and i figured thats what she was doing having a giggle until i looked out the kitchen window and the dogs were there... i thought i better go see what she's up to.. as i walked in i could have sworn i saw someone move away from the window on the outside... all of a sudden the dogs went NUTS... i checked outside and there as NO-ONE and we can see pretty much the whole property so if there was someone there i would see them.
DD stopped chatting at the window which had me a little spooked, for the rest of the night i had this strange feeling i was being watched from outside, it was by no means the calm 'someone is checking up one me' feeling i had had previously.
That night i took some sraps out for the dogs and could have sworn someone spoke, i checked towards the shed and there were no lights. The dogs were doing laps of the house and sticking very close now to any window or door DD was at.
I have had this feeling a couple of times now, even when DP went out last week, i feel it is outside and is not coming in but it really is starting to give me the creeps.
We NEVER lock the doors in the house but i am thinking of locking them ALL, i don't leave outside lights and i NEVER shut our curtains...
Any ideas on what this might be, i think if it was an actual person they would have had their chance a million times to get into our house with or without us in it.. i am so not sure but that calm feeling is gone... if it is a ghost i want the happy protective one back!
Yeah the prob is other than that quick flash i thought was a person when DD was at the window i haven't seen anything, i have tried talking out loud but it's still there.
Hmm maybe when DP is not around i will go to all the doors and windows and when i get that being watched feeling i might just sit and have a chat... lol
The odd thin is the nice friendly being cared for feeling was INSIDE the house and i knew it was inside, this other feeling is very much a can't get in but i'm being watched feeling.
I don't think it's the same thing, well unless we have done something to p it off but other than moving plans we haven't done anything to this house.
Hmmmmm any other ideas are greatly appreciated, maybe it's my PG hormones tricking me?
Have you got a feeling on the sex of the visitor? Have you seen anything, shadow or anything? is there something new in the house or outside the house?
We had a man in a fedora hat who I picked up in Kew, he came with us to Dh family home but he never came inside and would "walk" past our windows. He always frightened me but he disappeared around the time we had probs with my pregnancy with Nikita (same as most of our other activity in the house)
Maybe one of the other girls might know some protective methods??
I have a feeling the outside one is a man.. the figure i saw move away from the window was definitely a man, at first i thought it might have been my reflection (i'm quite tall and broad) which often shocks me... lol but no there was definitely a man at the window.
The inside one i am not sure, i get the feeling of someone older just checking up on us, very calm, not intrusive just wanted to make sure we were ok.
Nothing new inside or outside that i can think of, we are planning DD's 1st birthday which is going to have a lot of guests so maybe this person is getting annoyed at the intrusion?
but we had people for MIL's 60th and i didn't get an odd feeling.
Could have also been maybe this person/thing felt ok watching us while DP was working lates? When he has been home at a normal time the feeling is not there?
Have you tried smudging? That can clear negative energy. I usually do it when i move into a house - not sure if it works outside the house, but you could circle the house.
tashybabe - thanks will def look at those...
Definitely not a local weirdo, my dogs would have attacked anyone STRANGE within a 2 foot radius of DD as they are very protective (not that they bite ppl but you know what i mean) and they bark the 2nd there is a stranger around, so no-one could actually get to my door without me knowing about it, the dogs were happy until whatever i saw did a runner... lol
Also i ran straight to the window and i can see everywhere so if it was an actual person i would have seen them trying to get away.
Well DP has taken DD to bunnings so gonna start tea, see if anyone comes to visit me while i'm home alone...
only just came across this post...how is it going now?
i have to say that i am a little concerned by this one. and like Nae my feeling is that this is a different person. i guess my main concern is from what you have mentioned with your feeling of uneasiness and also, i never really like the ones that watch. honest, i do think it's rude and usually let them know: not in a 'get your freak on and be angry' way, but just a common courtesy 'we all share this space so deal with it' way ITMS. had this one in a house our friends lived in in Fiji. the house over time got a 'heavy' feeling and i would feel rather constrained when visiting as though we were intruding. turns out the person was unusually attached to my friend and found others that were around to be a hassle and interference (this included her DH and DD). Increasingly she (was a young child of about 12ish years i could gauge) became a little more confident in dealing out uncomfortable feelings...and this DID coincide with my friend and her family deciding to move out. so maybe the increase in activity from your visitor has a correlation with plans for you guys to move? maybe this person has been there the whole time (i'm figuring that they have a connection to your DD?) and is slightly concerned about said moves. either way, i think they are overstepping the boundaries (no pun intended ).
keep your ears and eyes out and trust yourself (and your furbabies!), if it does get too uncomfortable at times, i would take yourself and DD out for a bit (also it might be worth checking out some strategies for closing off DD from the visitor): i think the closing of the gates and doors is going too far in its disapproval (of whatever it is unhappy about ITMS).
P.S. it's a good thing that your DH is able to get the visitor to leave, maybe channel some of his energy through the house for when he is not there?
A bit of an update, funny you chose yesterday to write Cassius2 as i was just thinking i really need to update on here.
So i haven't had much time here without DP of a night as he hasn't been working that late and whoever is watching me doesn't like when he is around so there hasn't been much action BUT:
The last time i wrote DP had taken DD to bunnings, i was cooking tea and just had this odd feeling someone was near the lounge, the dogs weren't pacing but they weren't just kicking back relaxing like normal.
I didn't look at the doors when i walked in, just went and sat on the couch and turned the TV off, i felt as if someone was watching me so i just sat and had a bit of a conversation with them.
I told them it made me uncomfortable to be watched all the time and it wasn't polite, if they needed something or wanted to watch over us i would prefer they either came out and showed me what they needed or they watched from a distance.
I told them to stay away from DD and to let the friendly back to watch over her if thats what the problem was.
I got no response, no movement nothing but felt the person had gone and then the dogs were berserk! not 2min later DP pulled in the drive.
Every now and then when i'm tidying of a night i get the feeling someone is outside but they are not close to the house and they are not trying to get in.
Then the other night i felt friendly back in the house, i had to get up to DD in the middle of the night and nearly tripped on something, i was cursing the whole way to her room but then just felt a sudden CALM, it was odd.
I have a few theories i have come up with about my 'watcher' as i have nicknamed him.
* DD was born at home and i think there may be a strong connection with this house. Please feel free to read my birth story for more insighthttp://forums.bellybelly.com.au/foru...ome-birth.html
* I think thats why it has a strong feeling toward DD & I and NOT DP
* DD turned 1 nearly 2 weeks ago and we had A LOT going on
* We started the plans to build etc
I think maybe the connection with myself and DD had the watcher a little upset, maybe now as some things have stalled with the building process and as DD is now 1 and still here it has calmed...
What do you guys think?
Sorry if this makes NO sense what so ever... lol
That makes sense to me. If the watcher was there when you gave birth to your daughter alone in the house, then I imagine he/she/it might feel proprietary towards you both. A bit like dogs get - all protective and territorial. Rather than a calm protectiveness though, the watcher may just feel territorial. It may be scared you'll leave him/her/it. It's good you expressed your boundaries and the watcher is keeping away.
Do you get a sense of the gender? Could it be another woman who wants to stay close to the baby?
Birth certainly creates an enormous amount of psychic energy and babies are a connection between the earth world and the spirit world - they are new fresh from spirit. That's why I believe small children when they do things like predict the gender of unborn children - I think they really do know.
tashybabe - the watcher is a man, i saw him one night at the window playing with DD, scared the crap out of me and he took off.
The friendly one i have NEVER seen only felt watching over us and checking up on us, i think this may be a woman now though, the more i think of it.
I am hoping the watcher has realised the boundaries, i don't mind if he is there or if he wants something but either let me know what it is or **** off.
Hopefully things stay nice and calm, am not sure how our visitors will react when #2 comes along, hope there is no jealousy from them rather than DD!
Well he is watching from a distance at the moment so hope it stays that way, it's still an eery (sp?) creepy feeling but it's better than feeling it at every window and seeing him play with DD.
Was up a bit last night with my teeth and i had a feeling he was outside but not making himself seen, i think he had gotten the point! YAY!
Ava is ok, waking a bit at night and seems 'lost' in her cot tried a night light last night but no difference, thinking it might be her teeth.. poor girl.
She falls asleep in my arms but the 2nd she is down she wakes again. HMMMM
Also wondering if it coincides with when i add more milk to her bottle instead of water.
We had 3 really good nights, slept right through, not even a dummy run now back to 2 bad ones!
hmm that IS interesting! do you think that they are a pair? (like the watcher and the calming one?). seems that they might be connected somehow?
...if she is cracking it with all sleeps just check that it aint an ear infection...we got busted a few weeks back with DD...no temp or anything, the only symptom was crappy night sleep and grumpiness ...just a thought...
Cassius2 - i am not sure if they are connected, since i had my chat with 'the watcher' he seems to have backed right off, i can feel him there and it's still a little creepy but it's from a distance, no more playing with Ava at the window.. thank god!
Since he has moved away i feel 'friendly' back in the house, only ever at night and i think it's a lady and she doesn't want to be seen, she doesn't make herself known to me and keeps her distance but i feel at peace.
I have this strange feeling that 'the watcher' is not ALLOWED in the house, maybe this is why he seemed to determined to watch us, maybe they were a couple or separated couple or something she got the house, he didn't but he feels connected to it and possibly to myself and DD with her birth?
maybe i am just making crazy things up in my PG brain... lol
Re: Ava it mainly seems to be at night, she doesn't seem to have an issue with day sleeps, once or twice a week she might do short sleeps but otherwise it's normally 1 long one for 1-2hrs or 2 shorter ones for about an hour each, if not longer.
I think one of her teeth is nearly through so just hoping it's that!
bubno.3 - thanks very much, am hoping #2 doesn't want to make the same kind of entrance as her sister!
Yeah i am always interested in this kind of stuff, and have SEEN ghosts before but this 'pair' intrigue me... what is there interest in me or DD? and why no interest in DP?
Interesting. You said you feel that that outside watcher is male... do you have a feeling of what culture he might come from? I sensed something quite specific from reading your posts... and if so you might be able to make the sometimes negative energy from Mr Outside if you consider his cultural perspective? You also might be able to engage the help of people of their culture (if you think they are connected) to "move on" in the ultimate sense? They are both hanging around because something is unresolved... it's not really a choice... I suspect that it would be better for everyone if they could get some help to "pass" properly. I'm going to read your birthstory now
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You said you feel that that outside watcher is male... do you have a feeling of what culture he might come from? I sensed something quite specific from reading your posts... and if so you might be able to make the sometimes negative energy from Mr Outside if you consider his cultural perspective? You also might be able to engage the help of people of their culture (if you think they are connected) to "move on" in the ultimate sense? They are both hanging around because something is unresolved... it's not really a choice... I suspect that it would be better for everyone if they could get some help to "pass" properly. I'm going to read your birthstory now
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