Bubs' eyes?

[TeniBear]

I'm reading a few babyloss blogs at the moment (I've even found one that had a post about me!) and I've noticed a few of them mention that they opened their babies' eyes... Is this something "normal" babyloss mummas do? (Normal - there's a joke. I'll never even be close to normal again.)

I didn't think it was really possible to open Ianto's eyes, I didn't even try for fear of "hurting" him, or seeing something I didn't want to see (bleeding, or something worse I can't even imagine...)

But what if I missed out? Should I have opened his eyes and taken in every part of him? I... I don't know what I think about this. I want to go back and open them now, see his beautiful eyes, take photos and look at them all the time...

Did anyone else open their bubba's eyes?