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thread: My Miracle Baby is gone....

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    Mar 2007
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    My Miracle Baby is gone....

    I called this my miracle baby for so many reasons...but mainly because I was told it died at 5.5w only to be shown a perfectly healthy baby (moving around on the screen) with a strong heartbeat at 8.5w. Everything was perfect...

    Until I awoke to bright red bleeding this morning. I actually wasnt that worried. Ive seen a healthy heartbeat so the bleeding must be something else, surely.

    But it wasnt . 2 separate abdominal u/s and one TVS u/s showed the baby's heart has stopped and is only measuring 9w, when I should be 10.5w. Report came back confirming 'fetal demise'.

    I have a choice to have a natural m/c or D&C. I dont want either. I want my baby!!!! I cant go through this pain again after last time, but I know I have to. This time yesterday DH and I were talking about getting the spare bedroom ready for our baby. Now I cant even go in there, I have closed the door. Its just too raw right now.

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    Diamond Girl i am sooooooo sorry! i was just reading the august thread last night to my friend, telling her your amazing story! I am so sorry sweetheart!
    Rest up xoxoxoxo
    Last edited by Yas; January 24th, 2011 at 01:16 PM. : out of respect

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    Dec 2009
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    Big dahl so so sorry to hear this.

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    Oct 2008
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    I'm so sorry to hear that DG

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    Dec 2007
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    So sorry for your loss xo

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    Nov 2009
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    I'm so sorry honey pm me if you want xxxx

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    Sep 2008
    Melbourne
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    So sorry for the loss of your precious miracle

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    of course you just want your baby, I am SO sorry to hear your news. I am so sorry you are having to go thru this, again.

    my sympathies hon, no words can cover it.

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    I'm so very sorry

  13. #13

    May 2008
    Melbourne, Vic
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    Oh no, I am so sorry this is happening to you...

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    Jan 2011
    Perth, WA
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    I am so sorry for the sad loss of your little miracle

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    Dec 2009
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    Oh gosh I'm so terribly sorry.
    RIP little miracle.

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    Mar 2008
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    Oh honey I am so truely sorry for the loss of your precious little miracle I wish I could take away your pain but all I can offer are lots and lots of big be kind to yourself xxx

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    Jul 2009
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    I'm so sorry to hear this hun, I really feel for you. Be kind to yourself. I hope you've got plenty of support. Thinking of you xo

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    Sep 2007
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    Diamond I am so so sorry to read this, it really isn't fair.

    Be kind to yourself .

    xoxo
    M

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