what happens from here?

[mummydreamer]

im still in shock right now. i had an ultrasound on thursday, a midwife appt on friday and everything was fine. yesterday i noticed bubs wasn't moving alot. about 1:30am last night i went into the hospital and they couldn't find a heartbeat. i am going back to hospital tomorrow night at 8pm to be induced. i have so many questions and fears going through my head right now, i am completely shell shocked. tomorrow will be my birthday and i would have been 38 weeks on tuesday. DH and i are just completely shocked and numb and we don't know what to do. we're complete zombies, and i really don't know how im going to go through labor and what happens next. how do you go through an entire 9 months of being pregnant, and not have a baby to bring home at the end of it??? i don't really know if i have a question, i mean, i guess what happens from here for those who have been through it? but right now i just needed to get this out. i just still can't believe it, and the worst hasn't even come yet......

[~Hestia~]

I'm so sorry

[*Sparklez*]

Oh gosh babe I am so so sorry...
This is a very difficult time for you..
I can't give you the right answer cause there won't be a right one for a while, just take as much time with your little one as you can..
Again so sorry this has happened to you


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[Dansta]

[chepie]

Oh hun I am so sorry....... thinking of you all at this very difficult time xoxoxo

[Danielle_NZ]

I'm so sorry to hear what your going through :-( I can't offer advice but I wanted to let you know that everyone here will be there for you

Big Hugs to you and your family

[mummajj]

oh hun. Im so so very sorry that you have to go through this. sending you big hugs

[Nicole S]

Oh hun, I am so very sorry for your loss
No advise just hugs
xx

[Traveller]

I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. I wish I could offer some words of comfort or help. Sending you strength for tomorrow ((()))

[feeb]

Hugs I am so sorry to hear of your loss, sending you strength as you prepare to say hello and goodbye to your precious angel..

xoxo

[Cassius2]

I am so so sorry mummydreamer. I cannot even begin to imagine the shock and agony that you are all going through right now, but just wanted to send out my love to you all and to your precious little baby

Will be thinking and sending you strength as you birth your sweet, precious baby and say hello and goodbye xx

much love,
Clare

[NaeNae]

I am so sorry hun. I wish I had some wise words for you but I don't. I cannot imagine what you are going through and my heart just breaks for you.

[Frantelle]

Im so sorry, please take cae of yourself

[ladybirdflies]

No advice, sending you prayers and support as you need it. You are supported and loved.


Peace be with you

[angelfish]

I wish that i could give you advice that would help you. I am so sorry for you and your family. I am sending you long distance hugs

[diannescruffy]

I am so sorry you are going through this, giving you a big warm embrace. I would just like to encourage you to take all the time you need after the birth to spend with your precious baby. To be able to have memories of your baby to keep close to your heart is something you will keep forever. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13

[HotI]

I am sorry your baby couldn't stay.

If you are interested, there is a volunteer organisation that can organise someone to take professional photos of your bub for you to keep. The website has contact details for each State. Heartfelt used to be known as the Australian Community of Child Photographers (ACOCP)

Heartfelt : giving the gift of photographic memories - Home
Heartfelt is a volunteer organisation of professional photographers from all over Australia dedicated to giving the gift of photographic memories to families that have experienced stillbirths, premature and ill infants and children in the Neonatal Intensive Care Units of their local hospitals, as well as children with serious and terminal illnesses.

Heartfelt is dedicated to providing this gift to families in a caring, compassionate manner.

All services are provided free of charge.

[RainbowBrite]

On hun I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss