Aaah that sucks. Your message to her was put perfectly, without any offence or accusations, just simple honesty. Well done on that.

I'm sorry that you received such a nasty slap in the face by her reply. How awful. At least you walk out of this freindship with integrity and a knowledge that you couldn't have done anything nicer and more loving than you did to salvage it.

Hope you don't dwell on all the nasty feelings you must have at the moment. Go get your hubby to buy some chocolate for you hey?!