Those people are rude to comment on your appearance, unless it's to pay you a compliment. My BIL asked my sister (his wife) after I gave birth if my tummy would stay 'like that'. I think he was referring to the cs overhang look. She laughed., and said it'd get better, but then in my defense, said her belly is.like that and she hasn't had any babies yet, lol. Gotta love my sister. It was an innocent question though. But if I were less self assured., it might've bothered me.