Teni bear again I am so sorry that Ianto's life with you was so short.

I myself as a midwife haven't seen any mummy's open their sleeping bubs eyes personally (not saying they didn't whilst I wasn't there) unless bub had been deceased for a longer period of time (say a week plus) I don't think you would have seen anything that would have upset you more like blood etc. It could have also been difficult like you said you thought it might have been. If I were in your position I don't think I would have tried either. Ianto looked so perfect sleeping and you have captured some beautiful pictures of him in your blog.

Time with Ianto was so short before you also said goodbye to him. I am sorry you didn't have a lifetime with him on Earth to see him grow and see every part of him.