Sarahrach - how are you doing today? One of the ironic things about the grief journey after the death of your babies, is just how unpredictable it can be. I thought I was doing ok, but then I read about somone who had just experienced an extremely premature birth and the death of their baby, and in an instant I was back reliving my own experiences.... even more than a year on.

So I guess I am trying to say, expect variable days..

Ok here a few of the memorial ideas I found most helpful - To Write Their Names in the Sand, Say it with Flowers Rory's Garden, Waterfall Angels - these sites use your darling boys names to take wonderful tribute photos. There are also others - say for instance names written on sea shells, or on the pavement in coloured chalk, or with coloured stones or computer generated written in the stars or clouds. There are also sites where you can request jewellery be made, or candles. I will have to send you these links after I go though my list. To Write Their Names in the Sand is run by Carly a bereaved mother, whose dream about her son Christian became the inspiration for her beautiful photos - she has also expanded her repetoire, so you might like some of her other ideas.

Thinking of you today.