what happens from here?

[Catherine]

[diannescruffy]

Efjay so glad she is talking to you, she is lucky to have such a caring friend and to you.

Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13

[*Efjay*]

Efjay so glad she is talking to you, she is lucky to have such a caring friend and to you.

I tell you, Its hard. I know its a gazillion times harder for her, But I am so scared she wont be able to talk to me when I have my baby. I don't want to loose her as my friend.

[diannescruffy]

You won't lose her hun, she will never forget you for being there for her.

Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13

[MrsBexie]

Oh Efjay, it's such a hard and sucky situation!! I am sure she appreciates you being there more than she could ever say!!!! It'll be hard when you have your bub, but you won't lose her.

Let her know we all love her and are sending hugs and support to her. xx

[*Sparklez*]

Efjay you are awesome, not many people can cope with helping a friend when loosing a child while carrying themselves...
Just be there for her in anyway you can, even if your not in her presence always make sure she knows no matter what you are within arms reach..
When she births her gorgeous angel baby it will be so hard for her and to her its going to be the beginning of the end feeling, and she is going to be angry as well as upset...
Try not to stress yourself you have to also look after yourself even though i know, its hard, but the more rest you get the stronger you'll be when she needs you most.
Im still aching for this girl, i know her pain.. and i know its full of emptiness..
I dont think you will lose her, but she may withdraw for a while, but thats just to come to grips with everything that has happened. From what you say, you will never lose her.. your too precious babe!! xoxox

[*Efjay*]

Thank you, I didn't mean to make it about me sorry.
I have not heard anything at all since this morning, which I understand. But I just wish I had some idea of what was happening now & if she is coping.
I have spoke with the midwives again, but of course they are unable to tell me anything. But have let her know I am thinking of her.

[beckoes]

thinking of you!!!

[Bun]

Thinking of you and sending all my strength xx

[Miss.B]

Efjay, thanks so much for the update. It must be so hard for everyone involved, particularly your dear friend, but try not to worry how she will respond to you afterwards. Just offer to be there for her when she needs you. I can understand how hard it will be for her to be around pg women but she will pull through hun. She will. You're a gorgeous friend, she's so lucky to have you in her life. Send her all of our love and hugs

[nickle730]

Thinking of you, your family and your beautiful angel baby.

[*Efjay*]

I will speak with her a little later today. She has family with her atm. But Im sure it will be ok to say, she has birthed her little angel & all went well (considering). Once I have spoke with her & she has said its ok I will update with details.

[diannescruffy]

She is in my heart right now, sending all my love and strength.

Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13

[skybie]

think of u gorgeous lady
xxx

[feeb]

Thinking of you all xoxo

[mummydreamer]

thankyou everyone for all your words and support. it's been a very hectic week, obviously. we laid our son to rest today, but i feel from hereon everything is going to calm down and reality will hit me.

when im ready, hopefully soon, i would like to post my story on here, whilst it's still fresh.

I tell you, Its hard. I know its a gazillion times harder for her, But I am so scared she wont be able to talk to me when I have my baby. I don't want to loose her as my friend.

and efjay.......that is never going to happen! you are not going to lose me over this. Trust me, you have been amazing xoxoxox

[*Efjay*]

got to go get some tissues again... Its been a very teary day thinking of you. I just wish I was there.

[Yas]

Mummydreamer- I am so so sorry for your loss i can't imagine the hell you and your family are going through at the moment, and in the years to come. I don't really know what else to say so i'll just send you a
Josiah Finn is a beautiful name xo
May little Josiah be watching over his mummy, daddy and family xoxox