I am planning on having a tubal ligation done when I have this baby ( I am having a c/s) Anyways I would like to know about others experiences with them..

How did you find it effected your monthlies afterwards?

Did you have any pain?

How did you feel mentally afterwards?
as in the finality of it all.

I am quite happy to only have 4 children.. We were going to get this done after our 3rd but I just couldn't go through with it, now I am quite happy to as I know I am happy with 4. it is the amount of children I have always wanted...

Also a vasectomy is out,, my choice I have told DH I would rather he didn't. of course he is pleased about this..

Anyways any advice or experiences you share will be greatly appreciated