But I don't want to go to a speciality store or buy weird ingredients! Or pay too much and i hate the idea of 'raw' foods with seeds etc. Asking too much ?

Thank you so much ladies! I guess it doesn't have to be totally healthy, just not AS fatty. So sugar substitutes are out of the question?

Ok maybe give me some good substitutes for:
Sugar
Butter
Oil

I can handle a bit of flour, I prefer the taste of wholemeal flour actually. I looove oats too Maybe some websites I can visit ( a few mentioned already, thanks )

Oh and N2L, do your recipes have stuff I can get from the supermarket? If so I'd love some