As a lot of you know my father passed away almost 4 weeks ago now. We lived with him, well, he slept in the granny flat in the backyard but ate all his meals with us and was in the house with us all day every day.

Shannen is almost 13 and she has just shut down, basically not talking and has no interest in anything at all..I am not sure what to do!

Tayla is nearly 10 and is talking about Paman all the time, bursts into tears every day, refuses to go to bed, cries because she misses him so much.

Hayley has no idea what is happening, but I am sure that she is picking up on the amount of stress around here. She keeps giving me strange looks with her morning bottle, as that was the one that he would usually give her.

How do I help the girls move on?

I know that sounds harsh, but I simply am not up to Tayla's tears every day, Shannen being so quiet, its just driving me nuts. There has to be a way that I can help them begin to move on, although I dont think that I am ready to do that myself, but I guess I will have to soon.

Any ideas???