Hi Lulu

Eveyone is entitled to their opinion, don't see how letting your DD shave or wear make up etc has anything to do with changing the world ...

The fact that we are going to teach them right from wrong, NOT to be the ones teasing and accept people for who they are might make a difference.

By not allowing our kids to do certain things at certain ages will only turn them into rebellious monsters as they get older, so i say instill the right ideas in their heads, encourage them to be individuals, but by doing this you don't have to make them the odd ones out at school, they will just end up hating you for it.