ah man you can't cater to everybody and if DS is ok about it, why not. You neeeed your sleep.

Pfft to the GF anyway. DD's bf used to say that crap even though I used to invite him for dinner all the time. I think it's more that you need to put yourself first - he can stay at the gf's more often I suppose. If the rental market is hard, it's not like he will have anywhere to go *evil grin.